Our expert says:
The legal issues sound complex, and you surely need good legal advice on this, and the comany in your name should be able to pay for this.
Yes, it makes no sense if your man can't pay the family bills, but can waste money at a pub or buy shares not needed right now.
As you're in financial troubles, surely sending a technician out ( presumably earning money for the firm ) is far more important than your daughter going out for fun on a date ?
I gather he has a daughter of his own from a previous relationship, as well as one with you ? ( or yours from a previous relationship ) l but it sounds as though he's not much of a good dad to either of them.
For the kids cellphones, there is no constitutional right to a cellphone, let alone to unlimited use of one. Let her have an allowance of R 30 airtime a month, and if she wants more she must take a part-time job to earn more to pay for it. Parents to not have to pay formendless phone gossip, especially when the kids will see each other at school and chat in the old-fashioned way - live !
Sounds like you're wise to look for another job, so long as you'll have a way of getting to and from work. Maybe you need good legal advice - if everything is in your name, surely you have the right to decide how it is used, even to close the business ? And the profits are yours, as are the debts.
Is this the best of times for him to spend money fighting for custody of his daughter if she is content with her aunt ?
I'm frightened to think I am "the only social life you have" - gosh !
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