Our expert says:
Its entirely understandable and sensible for you to have decided to leave a man who didn't bother to be faithful and was chronically unfaithful to you. The suicide wasn't in any way your fault, of course, though one may feel as though it was.
The anniversaries of the death of someone you loved ( whether or not they genuinely loved you ) are often tough times for any of us.
I'm worried about the sound of this new sweet guy having been or being in a relationship with a family member of yours, as this suggests a significant possibility of further later complications, and heart-ache.
If you are scaed of causing a break-up then that other relationship is still current, and he shopuld be rules out as a romantic partner. If he and his current partner wish to be friendly towards you, and supportive, that's different.
only 3 months into your loss, is also too early to be thinking of getting into any serious relationship with anyone.
See a counsellor, and avoid making further copmplications you really don't need right now
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