Our expert says:
He can't think much of you if he really expected you to fall for that ridiculous excuse ! This hasn't anything whatever to do with role play. If she think's he's "like a brother" then she's thinking of incest.
You can't "forgive him" while he is still lying, and more sorry for being found out, than actually sorry for what he was and maybe still is, doing.
Its neither possible nor desirable at this stage for you to try to block from your mind the words you came across. If you want to seriously consider staying with him, and he with you, then the pair of you need to see a marriage counsellor and seriously work through all this, rather than trying to forget and pretend it didn't happen
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