Our expert says:
Interesting. I wonder why he reduced the rather excessive frequency of his visits to her ?
I have a beef, even in the days of the TRC, that "reconciliation" is often a ridiculous aim, as you can only "reconcile" people who were previously conciled and somehow drifted apart. If they have never got along, the task is "conciliation", which is a bit different.
OK, the accident, etc. Of course it would have been NICe for her to have checked whether you needed a lift. Yes, she doesn't sound as though she was making any real attempt to be nice, but not openly making trouble either, and you did well to remain calm and not take it as provocation.
Sounds like a complex family, with both mom's having boyfriends and the dad's in play.
Play it cool, but calmly point out to your husband that you really tried to make up with his mom on these occasions, and she really didn't let you have any chance at all. Maybe it's time for him to speak to her
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