Our expert says:
Of course that was a wicked thing for him to have done. But what is now damaging yout sexual relationship with your husband are the assumptions about yourself, men, sex, etc., which you formed then, and which are not now useful for you. See a practical, CBT-oriented psychologist for therapy of the CBT form to help you re-consider these events and set yourself free from their consequences, so as to be free to enjoy the rest of your life, sexually and otherwise.
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