Our expert says:
If he can afford to pay for the kids to fly to visit him I it isn't your fault he moved to another province ) he can afford to pay towards the costs of your hosting him. I prefer that maintenance issues be laid down by the maintenance court, then he has to kep to the agreed terms. And if there is a very good reason for him delaying part payment, the court could compel him to pay back what he owes, should he "forget| to do so.
And when you say ( I wonder how you know, if he lives in another province ? ) that he has put R 7000 into his credit card and wasted R 1400 on anti-aging rubbish, then he need not take a loan from what he owes to you and his children, to do so. You;d best get a legal opinion, and the maintenance court could advise, but you'd be perfectly reasonable to refuse to accept short payments. Sounds like there's another woman on the scene --- men don't use anti-aging products so as to look gorgeous at work
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