Our expert says:
Why is he your Ex ? Surely there were good reasons why you parted, and they should still be good for now. Are you not perhaps idealizing a relationship that was far less good than you seem to think in romantic remembrances ? he has moved on and is not pining for you, so you two are not going to get back together, even if that weren't a really bad idea.
The central issue is later in your message - you and your husband are going through a rough pach, and you are escaping from this by fantasizing about how marvellous it wasn't with your ex. See a marriage counsellor if you can manage, and FAMSA may be able to advise on the most economical way to do this. Solve the problems you now have, rather than pretending there were no problems in the past, when there were.
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