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Posted by: Layla | 2009/08/26

MY BOSS

I have recently realised that I am somewhat attracted to my boss ... he is married and so am I and I do not believe in interfering in another person' s marriage, so I would NEVER let on that I have these feelings! Oh dearie me .... what now? There is just something about him that I find so attractive ... he is not drop-dead gorgeous neither does he have the body of a greek god, but there is that gentleness in him that really appeals to me ...

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DON'T DO IT. Office romances very raely end happily, and as both you and he are married, you will hurt other innocent people, because of a romantic notion you have discovered. Enjoy his gentleness as a gentle boss, without entertaining any idea of more of a relationship than your preswent hop[efully professional one.
Consider marriage counselling to enhance your own marriage, and if you can't stop thinking dreamily of him, change jobs

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Posted by: Layla | 2009/08/27

As I said I would never try and take it further ..... thanks for your input! Many years ago before I was married I had an office romance with a single guy (we were both single) and it did not work, so I know .... my boss is just such an awesome person!

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Posted by: Garfield | 2009/08/26

" he is married and so am I and I do not believe in interfering in another person'  s marriage, so I would NEVER let on that I have these feelings!" 

Leave it at that. And move on. If you can' t, switch jobs.

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