Our expert says:
I'm more surprized by people who can assume that relationships are easy ! Its largely the same, gay or straight. Where the age difference is significant is not so much a matter of years, but of culture - whether one's broader social viewpoint and habits match or not.
As this is your first serious relationship, maybe you're mainly just unfamiliar with how they go.
Being busy on a phone texting another friend while a real friend is with you, is just bad manners. But as the cliche goes, it does suggest that he's just not that into you.
If you go on holiday with someone, that's not an Ex. If they planned and paid for it months ago, that suggests that the breakup was ony recent. And starting a relationship with someone who hasn't finished processing the previous relationship, is never a good idea.
One cant think entirely rationally about emotional matters, but try to avoid, for instance, concluding that this is LOVE when it may be affection
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