Our expert says:
I don't quite understand what you are wanting to achieve here. And you are seeking far too general a response. How someone reacts to the death of a spouse varies widely depending on when, how the person died, the sort of relationship they had, and so on. And it sounds as though you are anticipating that YOU will somehow be "the next chapter in her life". People take time, usually at least 6 or 9 months or longer, to recover to the point of even looking seriously at how they might want to continue with life. If they have problems doing so, an experienced counsellor can help.
As to what or whether she wants, you'd have to ask her
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