Our expert says:
Considering how thoroughly your mother seems to have lived a purely selfish life devoted to her own pleasures, and to have neglected the needs of her own children, she has no authority whatever to comment on your way of life.
Tell your Auntie not to interfere, but rather to look more closely at howm thoroughly your mother neglected her children. There is no virtue in getting married but then leaving your children to other people to care for. And ask her to explain why your having a child while single is such a great disgrace to the family, while apparently it was no shame to them when she and your mother did exactly the same thing ? Especially as you are at least loving and caring for your own child.
Congratulations on how well you have managed your life under very difficult circumstances. There is no point in visiting her with your child - presumably she wants this to happen just so she can brag to othwer people about how good she is to you and your child.
You are entirely justifiable in continuing to care well for your son, and to ignore the twisted and unmotherly woman who now wants to interfere. I cant think of any way in which the child could benefit from exposure to this woman. The boy has been blessed in having you as a mother.
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