Our expert says:
Like Liza, I'm wondering what this still active 80-year-pld thinks and would like. Discuss it with her.
I also like Liza's point about needing to understand your brother's motivations in objecting - is she useful to them as a live-in maid, baby-sitter, etc ?
Money issues and costs need to be clarified, anyway, as they so often lead to bitter squabbles
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