Our expert says:
Bothersome, surely ? With people you meet on the net, you never really know who they really are, only who they ae presenting themselves as. And to expect you to sell up and rush aross continents without knowing him, sounds potentially unrealistic and inconsiderate, at least.
I don't think meeting on a Christian dating site necessarily guarantees anything about him - its not as though you have to validate your soul on joining such sites. Bad guys as well as good do use them.
I, too, wonder why he hasn't chosen to come out here to visit you and your child. If the two of you are indeed fated to get together, maybe its he who should think about moving out here - and even then, only after a proper meeting.
I'm not sure the other disappointing relationship is a good reason for leaving the country.
Why not ask him clearly to either visit you here, or to help pay for you to visit him there ?
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