Our expert says:
Why is he in such a hurry ? Don't give up your hard-won freedom and independence because he has some drive towards coupling, which may not even be primarily about you.
His comments do sound unduly mercenary and that could be appropriately worrying.
I agree with you, too, that at such an early stage, it is entirely inappropriate for him to expect you to contribute towards his bond payments, i.e. pay towards HIS ownership of a property in which you will have no ownership, while presumably still paying off the bond on your own property, which I gather he was not offering to help you to pay for.
It hardly makes sense for him to, effectively, present you with a bill for him "taking care of you".
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