Our expert says:
Sounds like she needs to discuss this qwith you, as it isn't fair for you to support all the costs of the relationship now she's working, as you did when you helped her out when she was not working. Maybe the next few times she declares herself to be broke, you could say "Me too !" and see how she reacts. Some of her expenditure may be really necessary - new couches and tiles, and a music system, are luxuries.
She is in fact right now using you, and insulting you by assuming you wont work this out for yourself. You really need to sit down and tak this through with her.
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