Our expert says:
I do agree that it is wise to sort out such issues before marriage - sometimes a marriage / couples counsellor can be useful, to help the discussions become fruitful, and perhaps to think of the range of issues worth discussing.
I'm sure other readers will comment on the issue of pooling salaries, which can work if there is a mutually agreed budget and some pocket-money for each of you . But when you say he plans to save the world and he uses the moeny for that sort of thing and knows you disapprove, he will be reluctant to accept any plan that gives you some say in such expenses, though some such agreement makes sense in any mariage
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