Our expert says:
Old people rarely change much, for good or ill.
The therapy you had is maybe not complete - it needed to deal not only with understanding what had been happening, but with specific strategies to deal with it ( which is where I prefer a CBT-style which usually does this ).
It sounds as though there's little point in talking to her about family matters as it only seems to produce negativity. Try to ignore her unhelpfully negative comments, and to recognize that they are ABOUT HER, and not actually about you. Yes, loosening yourself emotionally from her, at least from her comments, is something you have long needed to do.
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