Our expert says:
OK, within that long tale, he does indeed seem to have made some selfish and thoughtless decisions. For instance, allowing ANY tenant into the house you're trying to sell, ESPECIALLY people with a history of not leaving when they[re supposed to do so, was plain stupid. They shouldn'thave been allowed in at all, and especially not with an agreement signed in blood to leave within a week's notice if you sold the place or changed your mind for any reason.
Spending money unnecessarily ( a friend's house-warming is a luxury ) isn't wise.
You've clearly got many reasons to feel stressed, an getting medical tests searching for any other cause is probably a waste. Sounds like, when it becomes affordable, CBT counselling to help you handle stress better would be a good idea, as this vulnerability was a problem with your previous job and other issues in life.
Maybe at some level he still resents having needed to accomodate previously to some of your needs, but that's unworthy. Some people have what we call a "passive-aggressive" approach in situations of onflict - instead of being actively and openly aggressive, they drag their heals and hit back by being unhelpful, negative, and NOT doing things that would help. AGain, maybe marriage counselling could help, but that's another cost you may not need right now. Now that you're apparently both back nearer families, couldn't someone in either family help mediate ?
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