Our expert says:
Very few people can "explain" and give clear reasons for things they do, so it can be really unrealistic to expect coherent "explanations" in such situations. In individual psychotherapy he could explore and work out some of his motivations ; in couples / marriage counselling, the pair of you could achieve some usefully better understanding.
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