Our expert says:
OK, I agree - it surely does sound as though he's no good for you. Why do you feel you need to keep on forgiving him and taking him back ? Apparently he doesn't regret what he does ( genuine regret, that is, I don't mean the empty apologies an abuser makes to get his victim back )
What on earth about him to you find lovable ? Or is it more that you really want to love someone, and he's been lucky enough to be selected as your target ? He doesn't understand what's bothering you, he just understands if he pretends, you take him back and offer him another change to be abusive.
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