Our expert says:
Im a psychiatrist, not a mind-reader, Jade. Only this guy MIGHT be able to tell you, and he may well not even understand himself. SOunds like he was, for whatever reason, clumsy and in a hurry --- either expecting too much too soon and disrespecting you, or maybe actually inexperienced and clumsy. Perhaps you explained calmly to him that what he did felt like you were just being used, and that this was why you didn't want to see more of him. Anyway --- it was a DATE, some go well, some don't. You had every right to be self-protective and not to accept advances you found unwelcome.
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