Our expert says:
What selfish responses from your brother and sister ! They are ignoring your problem, which they should want to help with, and just dumping it all back on your lap. Tell them you can no longer afford to fund your father, and will have to stop doing so from this month, and leave it entirely to them, as they refused to work with you to try to find a better solution. Your parents MUST, repeat MUST take full responsibility for the problems they have chosen to get themselves into, and not act as though it was somehow your fault.
You and your husband take care of yourselves, and if and when you can find yourselves able to afford to spare any fuinding for your parents, that's fine, but that should be a bonus for them, not a necessity
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