Our expert says:
Many married women masturbate. Many married women with good satisfying sexual lives masturbate as well. So there isnt anything wrong with you masturbating or letting him know that. However, masturbation should not start to replace sex with your husband. This is why you need to address this issue with him so you can continue to enjoy sex together, instead of looking for an alternative. Let him know exactly what it is that puts you off sex and tell him what you would prefer. you could start this conversation by asking him what he likes in bed. if you want you could even suggest seeing a couple's therapist to help your'l better deal with this problem. dont let it go on like this for too long as you are going to start unconsciously distancing yourself from him.
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