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Posted by: Antoinette Fouche | 2009/06/24

Masturbating

My husband is addictive to masturbating, we have sex once a month, he masturbates 4 times a week? It has become a huge problem in our marriage, he is 52 yrs old and doing this for the last 30 years, is there any help for him?

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Its not really an addiction. Some people masturbate excessively as a sort of natural tranquillizer when they's under stress or bothered about something. If this is acompanies by less interest in having ordinary sex within the marrieiage, this is understandably troubling for you. But if he has been doing this for 30 years, change would be difficult, and presumably he wouldn't see much reason to want to change. Does he find this situation entirely satisfacory, or might he be interested in joining you in some marriage counselling sessions to see what broader improvements could be ahchieved ?

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Posted by: Anonymous | 2009/06/25

Sex once a month is so pathetic it enough to make him want to masturbate so often. There is nothing ' wrong'  with him

Be thankful he is not going elswhere to relieve his sexual tension...or maybe he is?

You probably have issues with sex and only let him touch you once a month and I bet that its under duress from your side, and you more than likely make him ' pay'  for that in other ways.

Instead of wondering if what he is doing is normal, check yourself out and see if giving him sex once a month is normal.

You probably dislike sex.

Pls make an honest response to this post of mine, would be interesting to see if you can be honest to a stranger.

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Posted by: Ja | 2009/06/25

Maybe its something he picked up earlier in his life when you would' nt respond to his approaches?
You say No - he jacks-off. Glad to see his libodo is still going strong!

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Posted by: anon | 2009/06/24

why dont you do it for him......join in....may lead to more sex?

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Posted by: Anon | 2009/06/24

Please leave an old man to enjoy himself...real now why the concern and worry after 30years?

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