Our expert says:
His behaviour is seedy, very seedy. The affair was bad enough, but to sneak out of counselling which might have solved your shared problems, and even to ask you to lie about it ( he couldn't face telling the counsellor how he felt ? ) is pathetic. He prefers the golf course where nobody asks awkward questions or expects him to behave like an adult. Maybe you should consult a lawyer, and perhaps even the knowledge that you are might encourage him to take the marriage more seriously, and will enable you to explore whiat might become a wise option
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