Our expert says:
People who start by saying "Don't judge me" often recognize that judgement by others is pretty well inevitable, and are judging themselves, too. Affairs usually end in misery all round, especially when you declare your Love for someone who does not love you. And you have a child affected by all this. Why not rather see a marriage counsellor with your husband. You seem to have decided that you will not allow yourself to feel love or fondnes for this guy nomatter what, so you are refusing to allow there to be any possibility of getting things right. The other guy may well be simply using you to the extent that pleases you, and benefitting from your determination NOT to love your husband and your determination to love anyone else
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