Our expert says:
Reminds me, somehow, of the bit in Alice in Wonderland, where someone says "The full horror of that moment, I will never forget" and someone else comments "You will, though, unless you make a note of it".
Has he actually changed ? Was he NOT this sort of person when you married him ? Or did you then, for a variety of reasons, overlook these aspects of him ? Is it your tolerance of these features than has decreased ?
Even from your description, it really doesn't sound as though he is likely to be very happy about the state of affairs, either. Why not talk calmly to him about this, and suggest some marriage counselling, which could benefit all of you, including the child ?
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