Our expert says:
maria identifies the crux of the matter. To have enjoyed so many years as a pair of adults, and then to suddenly try to cope with two very young kids would exhaust and challenege anyone.
It sounds as though you really do love each other, but in your natural styles, you express that love in different ways. What you describe is indeed a loving man, expressing that love in ways many men do. And a wife who as you very accurately express it needs to "feel loved" - its not about being loved, it's about whether you FEEL loved. And that can often be a translation problem, as though you are both expressing your love for each other in different languages, dismissing whatever the other one says because it is aid in the wrong language, rather than listening to the meaning.
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