Our expert says:
Hmm. It couldn't have been mainly about money - walking together is free, isn't it ? Currently, it sounds less like a marriage, and more like an arrangement where you are both alone, but alone together.
Maybe you need to speak calmly but firmly to him, about how it's obvious that the marriage is going wrong between you, and you both need help to re-adjust things so you can each be happier. Strongly suggest Mariage COunselling, and make sure you get a really good local counsellor. It doesn't sound as though the pre-marital counsellor did any good at all, and may have just been out of his/her depth.
anon makes important points - this is obviously a man who feel rejected and failing, who needs to know that you do love him and want him, but that the circumstances ened adjustment for the sake of both of you.
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