Our expert says:
Nobody deserves to remain with an abusive idiot like him. It isn't up to him to decide whether you choose to separfate from him or not ; and a protection order is useless unless firmly enforced.
If the police actually responded to a jealous abuser who wanted his wife to go home, they should be sent for psychiatric assessment and sacked from the police as dangerous fools.
Much depends on the legalities of the way you two got married, and you need to consult a lawyer about thsat ; but of course he couldn't get ANY of your pension before you retire, and I'm not at all sure he is entitled to a share after divorce is completed. And wouldn't you be entitled to a similar share of his pension and earnings ?
Call a group like POWA that exist to help abused women escape safely, and should be able to advise and support you.
You deserve a life of your own, and to be properly protected against this twisted guy
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