Our expert says:
If he's troubled enough financially to get a ring, he would probably be genuinely and sensibly frightened that you're already looking at catering quotes for a wedding which would surely not be in the near future ? Bridezilla rides again !
This Bridezilla response pits off any sensible man, and some may run away altogether, ans wisely so. There are unnatural pressures from bridal shows and magazines and moms and friends, to have a wedding that 100 years ago a Royal Family wouldn't dare to try. And too much of the focus comes to be on the Wedding - that dress, the special shoes, the reception colour scheme, whatever, and little or nothing on developing a loving relationship that will endure and make both happy. A wedding shouldnt be about conspicuous spending.
You were surely being pushy and frightening. Getting engaged is a sign of intentions, NOT an immediate prelude to an early wedding. I say it again, for too many women these days, it all seems to be about a wedding, and not about being married. There's nothing at all wrong with men who find that approach disturbing.
And what nonsense to suggest, as Kelly does, secret planning, accepting the modern fallacy that the wedding is entirely about the bride, and the poor sucker husband just has to pay for it.
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