Our expert says:
You are describing an abuser. And unless ( which is highly unlikely ) he becomes willing to sincerely enter into proper serious marriage counselling, you'd do better to call an agency like POWA which specializes in helping abused women, to help you plan a safe exit. A court can help to protect you from his violence and require him to pay maintenance for the children. Act so as to protect yourself and the children
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