Our expert says:
Presumably you have been tis different fro each other for all 8 years ? If so, the question may be more; why is this now a problem if it wasn't earlier on ? and if it was a problem from the start, why didn't you get in to marriage counselling to work on these issues ? Amy way, why not get into marriage counselling now ? If he flatly refuses to try to change or acomodate you, then's the time to consider alternatives.
Really's response is, well, Really sensible and worth re-reading.
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