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Posted by: Vroulief | 2010-01-18

Manlief

Hy het belangstelling in my verloor. Sover ek bewus is, is alles reg met ons huwelik maar hy sal eerder homself alleen bevredig as om met my gemeenskap te he. As ek wel iets begin doen hy wat nodig is vir sy eie bevrediging.

As ek praat of vra wat fout is dan se hy vir my niks nie hy dink ek is die een wat nie wil nie.

Maar ek' t nou al gesien dis hy nie ek nie. En hoekom sal ek aanhou probeer as hy my nie bevredig soos altyd nie maar net homself? Ek' t ondersoek gedoen en weet vir ' n feit dat jy my nie verneuk nie.

Is hy nou moeg vir my? Praat help nie, ek kry niks uit hom uit nie. Hy se daar is niks fout nie.
Ereksie probleme het hy nie.

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Our expert says:
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Obviously, marriage counselling is what is needed, perhaps through FAMSA, though the challenge may be to persuade him to join you in this process. Maybe if he sees this all as your problem, so long as he is prepared to join you in seeing the counsellor " to work on YOUR probem", and not his, he may be persuaded.
I doubt that you have done anything wrong, or that the problem lies within you, but whatever problem is troubling him, he is probably unwilling to admit to it, even to himself

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2010-01-18

Obviously, marriage counselling is what is needed, perhaps through FAMSA, though the challenge may be to persuade him to join you in this process. Maybe if he sees this all as your problem, so long as he is prepared to join you in seeing the counsellor " to work on YOUR probem", and not his, he may be persuaded.
I doubt that you have done anything wrong, or that the problem lies within you, but whatever problem is troubling him, he is probably unwilling to admit to it, even to himself

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