Our expert says:
It is unclear whether what you are experiencing is something called 'male orgasmic disorder' where there is a psychological block ot ejaculating intravaginally, or whether the stimulation you receive is inadequate - either too much of a different sensation for you (if you got used to the stimulation during masturbation you might find that vaginal stimulation is very different) or you are struggling with the timing - after her orgasm she wants to finish immedicately. If it is the latter, you can try to increase your stimulation before her orgasm.If it is a sensation issue, you may need to stop self-stimulation for a while (or use a loose grip with lubricant to try to sensitise yourself). If however, you have never been able to ejaculate intravginally, then it may be a psychololgical issue that warrants further exploration.
Claire - SASHA
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