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Posted by: anonym | 2011/09/20

low libido

okay im in a commited relationship with a guy for 2 years now, we have the same religion where no sex before marriage allowed. problem is, im always satisfying " his needs" , oral etc. and i reached the point now where im so fustrated, ive told him recently how i felt, was embarrassing. He said he doesnt " do oral" and that he cant do anything now because of exams cause he has no time. i cannot even masturbate, its forbidden and i will feel guilty. im really having a high sex drive, im constantly aroused, how can i shut it off?

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While you are satisfying your partner's needs your own sexual needs are not being met and is leaving you feeling frustrated and unsatisfied. It is good that you have verbalised your feelings with your partner but it seems that he is not acknowledging your sexual needs which is important. I would attempt to discuss this issue with him again. It is not necessary for him to perform oral sex in order for you to reach an orgasm.

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Posted by: Sexologist | 2011/09/20

While you are satisfying your partner's needs your own sexual needs are not being met and is leaving you feeling frustrated and unsatisfied. It is good that you have verbalised your feelings with your partner but it seems that he is not acknowledging your sexual needs which is important. I would attempt to discuss this issue with him again. It is not necessary for him to perform oral sex in order for you to reach an orgasm.

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