Our expert says:
A complicated question. We may have relaively little control over our primary emotions ( love or like, dislike, etc ( but we DO have the ability and responsibility to control our actions in how we react to those feelings.
Now, if you care about someone who is married, you KNOW beyond any possible doubt that if he is happy to see you, he is cheating on his wife and will be just as ready, in time, to cheat on you. He cannot possibly be the only person on earth whose company you can enjoy. And its really foolish to fool yourselves into thinking that you can just be good friends, without this turning into something closer. It won't remain "only friendship". Of course its risky. If your "friendship" was to be so inncent, of course you'd both be happy about telling his wife all about it, and inviting her along ? IF not, this proves that you KNOW there would be something wrong with it.
What you're thinking of WILL end badly and sadly all round. Rather leave him alone and find soneone who has not promised himself to someone else, and who cares ONLY about you
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