Our expert says:
Do not under any circumstances marry any person who already abuses you --- it will only get worse after the marriage. If your family would be pleased by you turning your life into a hell by marrying an abuser, you OUGHT to displease them and you SHOULD let them down. It is disgraceful that they should pressure you in any way to marry a rat. Don't consider suicide. Call Lifeline to talk things through if you feel desperate, but with their advice, find someone to see for counselling, and explore other ways out. Any family that wants a daughter to marry an abuser should be profoundly ashamed of itself. Do they know what he is really like ? If not, do tell them, calmly and firmly. And ask if they want their daughter to spend her life being abused. And call a group like POWA which advises abused women, and they can help you find a safer way of getting the happer and non-abused life you deserve.
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