Our expert says:
Sounds like his sister is handling things well, and it's good for her to get to know your boy. The cause of eath sounds a bit odd, though I suppose if one gets into drug adiction, one gets to deal with some odd and sometimes sinister characters.
Death of anyone you've been fond of is rareluy easy to get over, especially so when the relationship has been ambivalent and stormy, and especially when it is unexpected and sudden, as in this case. And conscientious people may feel guilty even when you had absolutely no guilty role in the death. Sometimes, its related to times when he was especially difficult and abusive when you might, very understandably, have wished he would just die and set you free.
On the one hand its good to get pleasantly involved in other friendships, but you're right this is probably early to get into any serious relationship.
Take care, too !
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