Our expert says:
Sorry to hear about this, D. To abandon a husband and marriage apparently without good reason, isn't worthy of respect ; but to abandon one's children for a boyfriend is even worse, and realyl selfish and cruel. What you are doing for those children is admirable, so don't give in to any temptation to rush off on your own -imagine what that could do to them ! Children even in the best managed separations risk blaming themselves even though it was in no way their faults.
For her to try to be nice to you sounds like hypocrisy. Have you talked directly to her parents about this ? They surely can't be content with what she has done to you and the kids ?
And even if you rushed away to the Bahamas or wherever, the very first thing you would unpack on arrival would be your anger, outrage and grief over what has happened. You will be able to work through this with time, but not by geographical shifts. And do see a counsellor, for your own sake and that of the kids, and because you richly deserve such expert help and support.
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