Our expert says:
Sounds like you really need some good, down-to-earth counselling, to help you to sort out all his confusion. Congratulations on leaving the abuser. maybe you got into this present relaionship on the rebound, gratefuyl for some kindness in a partner, but if not basically Lesbian ( or not comfortable with the idea that you might be ) you are uneasy in this relationship[. Work with a counsellor to clarify your orientation and your needs. You would not be wasting anyone's time in seeking help. If you eventually decide to break up with this woman, it should not kill her ( and didnt, last time ) --- it will upset her.
Work out with your counsellor what is a "normal" life for you, and how to get there from here
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