Our expert says:
Cats are very important to peopel who love them, but i sounds unreasonable to have expected you to move out of a home you already owned, and rent elsewhere, just to accomodate the cats, and then to find you are allergic to them anyway.
Cats also seem, like some dogs, to have an uncanny ability to recognize someone who feels uneasy with cats, and to head straight for them. And they are indeed persistent. VERY persistent. Your concern is not pathetic and very understandable. Especially to people who aren't dotty about cats. ( Ssshh, my cat mustn't hear this ). Couples counselling, perhaps ? If you really want this particular relationship to continue. Otherwise, juscalmly and tactfull discuss this with her, and explain that you don't see this working out, an think it would be wise to end the relationship, let you move back to your own home, and let her find somewhere where she and her cats can be happier. For her it's probably a package deal, and she will consider herself and the cats as automatically going together
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