Our expert says:
Remember that sex and love are different things, though obviously often related. It sounds as though you decided too early in this relationship to start having sex with him. But if you say this has happened a number of times before this, there is probably a more general and personal element at work here, and it would be a good idea for you to see a counsellor to work to understand this better, and to deal with whatever else may be troubling you.
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