Our expert says:
He doesn't have fantastic good looks - but he's a splendid guy who is happy with someone as good as you - so are looks really THAT important ?
Kids generally look like themselves, with elements of mom and dad, and its unpredictable. Sometimes they look like your great grand-dad !
You are letting yourself get hung up over something trivial and which sounds unpleasantly like vanity.
I wouldn't mind if my kids were good-looking - but I would very much rather that they have a beautiful personality and are happy and loving, than that they be pretty. And if one over-emphasizes "pretty" as a value, you tend to get kids who are uglier inside, and who have real problems in life when, as is inevitable, their looks fade, and they have nothing else.
And, sorry, but I agree with those readers who say you sound deeply shallow, and worryingly uninterested in much more important things.
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