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Posted by: d | 2010/01/29

Looking at Girls

My wife constantly accuses me of looking at other girls, I am really not doing this, I am even prepared to take a lie detention test to proof my innocents. My wife is not talking to me at the moment because of this. How to I handle this, I really love her

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Some men look at girls without even realizing that this is what they are doing. Some wives feel very insecure and are convinced their husband is looking at girls even when he isn't. The complain suggests all mis not well in the marriage, and some sessions of marriage counselliing could be a relief and a help to both of you

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Posted by: C | 2010/01/29

Sy voel unsecure dis hoekom. Gewoonlik as dit nie lekker gaan in jou huwelik nie dan probeer mens altyd fout vind met enige iets. Ek weet, ek was ook daar en ek was verby jaloers gewees.

Probeer meer opofferings te doen of maak ' n date vir julle. Wat ek daarmee bedoel is surprise haar met ' n romantiese ete, bottel sjampanje by restaurant. Sê  vi ha julle het ' n date en sy moet klaar wees teen daai tyd. As jy meer klein dingetjies doen in die huis, vir haar, vir die kinders......sal al die negatiewe dinge verdwyn en sy sal meer vrou voel, vir jou. Laat haar " die een"  voel in jou lewe. Sê  vir haar hoe baie sy vir jou beteken en dat jy nie sonder haar kan lewe nie....as jy haar regtig SO liefhet sal jy die wereld omkeer NET vir haar.

Of dalk moet julle ' n dag afvat, pak ' n piekniek mandjie vir julle en gaan sit in die park en praat julle harte uit. Gee mekaar kans om jouself te verduidelik SONDER interruptions.

Probeer haar verstaan hoekom sy so voel. Dalk was haar vorige vriende ontrou teenoor haar en het ' n vrees ontwikkel vi dit dat dit wee sal gebeur.

Gaan soek op internet " 5 tale van liefde"  en kyk onder wat se een sy val: " 5lovelanguages dot com" 

1. Acts of Service
2. Gifts
3. Physical Touch
4. Quality Time
5. Words of Affirmation

Print dit uit en gee dit vir haar sodat sy ook kan sien, onder wat se taal jy val. Begin mekaar weer raaksien en te verstaan. Kommunikasie en respek speel ' n baie groot rol in ' n huwelik en verhouding.

Bytvas

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Posted by: Me | 2010/01/29

Aaaaaaaaahhhhhhh

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2010/01/29

Some men look at girls without even realizing that this is what they are doing. Some wives feel very insecure and are convinced their husband is looking at girls even when he isn't. The complain suggests all mis not well in the marriage, and some sessions of marriage counselliing could be a relief and a help to both of you

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