Our expert says:
Is i at all traditionally aceptable, to his family or yours, that he borrow money from you under false pretences, to pay the lobola ? You do NOT know "for a fact" that he will pay you back, only that he has said he would, and has not yet done so. If he is being deceptive and unreliable a this stage, this in't a great sign of how things will go within a marriage
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