Our expert says:
I think it was Shakespeare who pointed out that while alcohol may increase desire, it usually worsens performance. If he has any problems in regard to sexual performance, this can surely be helped if he seeks help for it. And it sounds as though there are some relationship problems needing attention, where a counsellor could help - but hard to set up if you are spending most of your time apart. Sex shouldn't be seen as a duty rather than a pleasure. Remind him how much you love him, and ask him to join you in making plans to get proper help to sort this out, for the sake of both of you
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