Our expert says:
Sorry to hear about this, no wonder you're exhausted. It's nonsense for your husband's family to expect to stay with you every month ---unless they do so to lighten your load, by sharing child-care and household chores so mas to give you a rest. To add to your burden is absolutely unaceptable.
There needs to be a good long discussion with the Cardiologist ( a GP's pinion is not enough ) to make sure what precisely is wrong with his heart, and to what extent it should limit his abilities to carry out the routine chores of life--- it's too easy for someone to hear a heart diagnosis and give up and expect to spen his life sitting on his bottom and taking it easy --- which is usually far more damaging to his heart than modest exercise. I'd be surprised if the heart specialis doesn;t WANT him to be more acive every day. He should be able to help with child care, cleaning, cooking and household chores.
It's not good for him or you to keep expecting him to drop dead at any monent --- that way he spends all his time waiting to die ( and it could be many years ahead ) and no time living, or helping you to live enjoyably.
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