Our expert says:
SO he cheated, then lied about ending it. "Working on" a relartionship with such problems, usually, indeed almos always, works best when it is done with the help of a marriage counsellor, rather than trying to do it entirely on your own. Confronting is not a useful technique, and usually recommended only by quacks. But HE has opened up the old wounds by whow he has chosen to behave, so ignoring it is not a good option, either. Simply tell him that you have discovered that he is still in contact with this woman, and you want him to join you in seeing a marriage counsellor to work mon the problems this causes.
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