Our expert says:
Remember my repeated warning - when either or both people considering a serous relationship are in the midst of a divorce or break-up, or planning one, or still recovering from one, be very cautious. A friendship, without "benefits" and without getting too emotionally involved may be the most that would be good for either.
Don't "put your life on hold" - continue with it. YOu're wise to encourage him to explore properly sorting out whatever problems he has with his wife, but don't hold your breath.
Also avoid what I consider an often damaging delusion, that there is one single person on the face of the earth for for the next 5 decades of your life, who is THE ONE, and nobody else could possibly bring you happiness. Fortunately that is not so, even if sometimes it feels that way.
Take your time without excess impatience. Both of you probably need a friend more than a lover at present, anyway
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